The Pearl That Broke its Shell by Nadia Hashimi takes place in Afghanistan and jumps between two characters, Rahima, and her great-aunt, Shekiba. Rahima’s story takes place in 2007 when at age 9, she embraces the custom of bacha posh, a tradition that allows young girls to dress like boys until puberty. Because of this, Rahima is able to provide for her mother and four sisters while her opium-addicted father lays around, refusing to let Rahima’s sisters attend school. But at age 13, Rahima’s parents can no longer provide for her and her sisters, and they are each married off. Rahima’s story intertwines with Shekiba’s and sadly, not much has changed for women since Shekiba’s time in the early 1900s.
Women are still seen as property of the men they marry, have little access to education, and often have nowhere to turn in the face of abusive marriages. I really enjoyed the story and the parallels between the two characters, but the message or lesson I was supposed to take away was a bit on the nose sometimes.
While the book’s message was not subtle, Hashimi has a talent for writing some nuanced prose. There are some beautiful nuggets of writing in here and I’ve listed one of many quotes I highlighted while reading.
“This life is difficult. We lose fathers, brothers, mothers, songbirds and pieces of ourselves. Whips strike the innocent, honors go to the guilty, and there is too much loneliness. I would be a fool to pray for my children to escape all of that. Ask for too much and it might actually turn out worse. But I can pray for small things, like fertile fields, a mother’s love, a child’s smile—a life that’s less bitter than sweet.”
With that said, the dialogue did fall flat and often didn’t feel realistic. And Shekiba and Rahima were difficult to tell apart. While 100 years separates them, their voices were written so similarly that sometimes I wasn’t sure whose story I was reading. Another review I read expanded on this saying that while the book took place in Afghanistan, the way it was written felt like it could have taken place anywhere at anytime. I do agree to some extent, but it was very apparent the culture was not European.
Barring some of the writing issues, I thought this was a powerful story. It made me realize just how fortunate I am and that many women are still living in horrific conditions. I gave this a 4 out of 5 stars because I loved the story and it still has me reflecting on it almost two weeks later.